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Do Catholic Parents Have to Choose a Saint Name for Their Baby?

June 20, 2026 by Anne Marie 2 Comments

Your name stays with you all your life, so the questions and decisions surrounding a chosen name are vitally important for parents. Today, I’ll focus on one often-asked question: are Catholic parents required to choose a saint name for their baby (or adopted child)?

The short answer is “no.” However, there are important guidelines to follow.

In 1935, Edward Smith wrote in his 1935 naming guide, “It is the desire of the Church that at Baptism and at Confirmation her children receive the names of Saints.” For good reason, the Church understands the importance of a patron for intercession and to serve as a role model of holiness for the child for his entire life. 

While the 1917 rules previously required that at least one of the child’s names be Christian, this was later relaxed. Canon 855 now states that parents, sponsors, and pastors must “take care that a name foreign to Christian sensibility is not given.” Do not miss the key point here that Catholic priests still have a duty to advise parents in this matter when there might be a potential question or concern. But what does “foreign to Christian sensibility mean?” Perhaps this phrase is deliberately vague for a purpose; the Church wishes to advise but not dominate parents in a process that, while religiously significant, is also personal and nuanced.

Clearly, names like Lucifer, Hitler, Judas and Jezebel would fall under the description “foreign to Christian sensibility.” Depending on time and locality, other names might be avoided; to an Italian the name Benito (i.e. Mussolini) could have strong anti-Christian connotations while in America it might not. Cultural considerations also come into play; while Jesus is a time-honored name for your son in Mexico, in the European tradition is it taboo.

Catholic parents should avoid names such as these:

  • Demonic, satanic or blasphemous
  • Pagan
  • Ridicule-inducing
  • Unserious, silly or vulgar
  • After a publicly immoral namesake (i.e. like Miley or Madonna)
  • Unduly burdensome*

*Do you really want to name your son Polyeuctus after the 3rd century Christian martyr? Imagine the trials he is destined to endure throughout life due to spelling and pronunciation and the fact that his schoolmates will almost certainly assume he was named after a dinosaur.

Why would Catholic parents NOT want a saint’s name?

There might be some who are perplexed at the fact that devout new parents would choose a secular name for their newborn. But there are valid reasons for doing so.

  • They wish to honor a friend or family member that happens to have a secular name (an aunt named Ruby or a best friend named Walter)
  • They wish to continue the tradition of naming a son after the father (Jefferson Davis, Jr. – Jefferson Davis, Sr., etc)
  • They wish to honor the saint using a variation or association (there is a girl at my parish named Siena after Catherine of Siena)

I always like to say, if we restricted ourselves to only saint names, there would never be any NEW saint names for parents to choose from!

Our son, Benjamin Patrick, all dressed for the sacrament of baptism

Even if the rules are more lax now, isn’t a saint named still preferred?

Yes, you could say that even with the “new” rules, it’s clear that the Church traditionally encouraged (for thousands of years) the use of saint’s names and for excellent reasons! In fact, Canon 761 specified that in instances where the mother and father refuse to give a Christian name, the priest “shall add to the name given by the parents the name of some Saint and enter both in the Baptismal Record.” That’s pretty serious business!

And this is why, even when parents opt (for valid reasons) to choose a secular first name, they will designate a saint for the second (or third). We have chosen this route for several of our children:

  • Ingrid Elizabeth
  • Evelyn Abigail

In the example given earlier, when it’s vitally important to your husband and his family that his son be a Junior, then a Christian name could be tacked on the end. The birth certificate might read Jefferson Davis Joseph, Jr. but he would go by Jefferson Davis, Jr. in practical usage.

What about naming children after Old Testament figures?

While names like Noah and Hannah are more common in Protestant circles, and they have not been formally recognized by the later-developed canonization process, “patriarchs, prophets and certain other Old Testament figures have been and always will be honored as saints in all the Church’s liturgical traditions.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church 61).

Note that this is not a blanket approval. It’s understandable that naming a son after the holy patriarch Abraham is laudable, and weren’t Elijah and Moses spotted at the Transfiguration of Christ? But a namesake like Solomon might give parents pause. After all, his lusting after women and cozying up to idolatry justifiably ignited the Lord’s anger (1 Kings 11:1-9). So just use your common sense and consider the person’s life, legacy and associations.

More naming advice…

I’ve got lots of other posts to help you choose a good name!

  • How to Name Your Farm or Ranch
  • More  Than 300 Great Names for Your New Pet
  • How to Think of a Name for Your Business or Product
  • How to Name a Boy or Girl After the Virgin Mary
  • Name Ideas for a Baby Girl Who Has a Male Patron Saint

Filed Under: Faith and Family, Names Tagged With: baby names, baptismal names, canon law names, Catholic names, saint names

The BEST and Most Comprehensive Baby Name Books for Parents

June 3, 2026 by Anne Marie Leave a Comment

With twelve children in our family, my husband and I have had ample reason to consult baby name guides over the years. Here is a round-up of our favorites, both in print and online.

Name Your Baby by Lareina Rule (the author’s name means “the queen”) is a classic, first published in the 1970’s. It includes the origins, meanings, nicknames and namesakes for thousands of names. A very popular book for its time, Rule’s baby name guide sold over two million copies. The first half contains female names, the second male, and the intro is a delightful and clever read with many useful naming tips. It’s available on Kindle, but if you’d like to get your hands on a used paper copy, be sure to look for very good or better condition because you’ll reach for this one a lot! The bonus baby “personality horoscope” is, of course, all in fun, and an amusing relic from the 70’s.

Best Baby Name Book has been updated a couple of times, but I still enjoy Lanky’s original version for its humor and advice, along with thousands of baby names. It’s got a good mix of classic, popular and highly unusual and is available in an affordable and easy-to-read paperback format.

Baptismal and Confirmation Names first published in 1935 by Benziger Brothers, the original was hardbound in navy blue cloth with gold lettering (I have two copies of it and share it often with new mothers!). You can sometimes find vintage copies of this lovely old book on Ebay, but there’s also a softcover reprint available on Amazon. Author Edward F. Smith created this work because “It is the desire of the Church that at baptism and at confirmation her children receive the names of Saints.”

Whether you accomplish this through the first or middle name (or both) Smith’s book assists by listing alphabetically all known saints with their Latin and modern equivalents. It hasn’t been updated (obviously) but it’s chock full of beautiful names and variations you’ve probably never heard of. Our parish priest recommended this book to me; he consults it so that during a baptism in the traditional rite, he can look up the baby’s name in Latin. In the back you’ll also find a daily calendar of feasts and patron saints.

The Baby Name Wizard goes beyond your average baby name book with sibling recommendations, name categories, and even regional maps that track usage and popularity. It’s a novel and scientific way to look at choosing one of the most important aspects of your child’s life.

The International Baby Name Book offers ideas and inspiration based on different countries, cultures and languages. Included are detailed meanings and origins so that you can carefully choose a name with deep cultural significance. My personal favorites are the Nordic and Russian names!

Beyond the Books: Some Fun Baby Name Websites

Nameberry quickly gained a following at its onset for being a serious and thorough research hub for baby names. Plug in a name and you’ll be treated not only to the usual meanings, nicknames and origins, but full articles in many cases that give a fascinating history and anecdotal stories to really flesh out the name. Which is wonderful for parents who want a name that’s got a story behind it.

Just as an example, here’s what you get when you pull up Kyler, which is a pretty new name but has a great backstory and rich historical roots.

Bounty has a fun random name-generating tool; choose from girl, boy or gender-neutral if you don’t know the sex.

My advice is to avoid sites like The Bump and BabyCenter as they are full of ads and trackers.

Social Security Administration is an official website of the United States government, but it’s not as dry as other sites, offering baby name trends, historical rankings, and useful advice and tools for navigating the social security system.

Here are more of my blog posts on choosing great names!

 

 

 

 

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100+ Ways to Name a Boy or Girl After Mary the Mother of God

April 26, 2023 by Anne Marie 3 Comments

For hundreds of years, Mary stayed solidly in the top 10 of baby name lists (even though they didn’t really have those in the “old days,” but you get the point). And it will always be a lovely name!

Whether you’re talking about a girl named Mary Virginia or a 17th century French priest named Louis-Marie de Montfort, parents since the time of Christ have honored His mother by the names they’ve chosen for both their boys and girls. My mother had four daughters, and three of us were given the middle name of Marie to honor the Blessed Virgin.

If you wish to remember the Mother of God and her role in salvation history, but want something more unique than Mary or Marie, then read on!

Let’s start with forms of Mary.

Note: Names that would also work well for a boy are in italics.

Variations of the Name Mary

Mara or Maura
Maria
Mariah
Marion
Marya
Maureen
Miriam

Diminutives of Mary

Many forms have grown out of the name Mary, in different languages:

Marika
Mariska
Marita
Marzena
Mia
Molly
Myra
Ona
Polly

Names That Contain Mary

Maribel
Marilla
Marlyn
Marilyn
Marianna
Marianita
Marilee
Marisela
Marisol
Marlene
Marlena
Marynell
Maribeth
Marigold
Marilou
Mariel
Mariella
Mariette
Marissa
Marita
Rosemary or Romy

Our Lady of the Annunciation by Fra Angelico

Marian Names Inspired by Devotion

If you’ve ever prayed the Litany of the Blessed Virgin Mary (composed during the Middle Ages) you know that over the centuries God’s mother has been given many titles, out of love and appreciation for her attributes and assistance. Jesus generously gave us Mary from the cross: “Behold, your mother!”

These titles can be used for a child’s name in various imaginative ways.

Akita – from Our Lady of Akita
Alexandria – from Our Lady of Alexandria
Amata – from the Latin for “Beloved Mother”
Amy – from the Latin for “Mother Most Amiable”
Angelo or Angela – from “Queen of Angels”
Carmel – from Our Lady of Mount Carmel
Caeli – from “Gate of Heaven” (Caeli is pronounced as it is in Latin – chay-lee)
Clement – from Our Lady of Clemency
Cora – from the Latin for “Immaculate Heart”
Danica – from the Slavic for “Morning Star”
Dawn or Aurora – from “Mary the Dawn” or “Dawn of Salvation”
Edessa – from Our Lady of Edessa
Eve or Eva – Mary is called The New Eve
Fatima – from Our Lady of Fatima
Fidelis – from Virgin Most Faithful
Grace or Gratian – from Our Lady of Grace
Lily – a symbol of purity
Lupe – after Our Lady of Guadalupe
Maren or Marina – from “Star of the Sea”
Marisol – from the Spanish for “Mary of Solitude”
Mercedes – for “Mother of Mercy”
May – the month of Mary
Paloma – after Our Lady of the Doves or her title “Spotless Dove”
Perpetua – after Our Lady of Perpetual Help
Pilar – after Our Lady of the Pillar
Ransom – after Our Lady of Ransom
Refugio – after Our Lady of Refuge
Reina or Reyna – from the Latin for “Queen”
Roch – after Our Lady of the Rock
Rose or Rosa – from “Mystical Rose”
Rosario or Rosaria – from “Queen of the Rosary”
Sophia – from “Seat of Wisdom”
Star – from “Star of the Sea”
Stella – from “Star of the Sea” or “Morning Star”
Tristan – after Our Lady of Sorrows
Victor or Victoria – after Our Lady of Victories
Virginia – from the Latin for “virgin”

Above: Insightful meditations from Saint John Newman, an Anglican convert

Do you have any other Marian name ideas to share?

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50+ Valentine-Themed Names for Your Pet

February 14, 2023 by Anne Marie 3 Comments

Are you bringing home a new pet around Saint Valentine’s Day this year? Or maybe there’s a litter due this February and you’re looking for name inspiration. Here are some Valentine-inspired name ideas to get you started:

Sweet

Candy
Caramel
Cuddles
Dove
Godiva
Hershey
Honey
Kit Kat
Lovey
Sugar Baby
Sweetheart
Teddy
Toffee
Tootsie
Truffle

Colors

Cherry
Pinky
Redd
Ruby
Scarlet
Violet

Flowers

Carnation
Daisy
Iris
Ivy
Lily
Lotus
Marigold
Poppy
Rose
Zinnia

Romantic

Amor or Amora
Beau
Belle or Bella
Carnation
Casanova
Cherie
Cleopatra
Cupid
Darcy
Desiree
Don Juan
Elvis
Rose or Rosie
Lancelot
Lorenzo
Paris
Penelope
Rhett
Romeo
Tristan
Valentino
Venus

And here’s a fantastic Valentine gift idea for a pet lover in your life!

Have you ever thought about doing a custom pet portrait? It’s easy to do and creates a memorable piece of artwork to display in your home or office. The process is very simple. Just upload a good clear photo of the animal and then choose one of over 100 different canvases, ranging from Renaissance nobles to military generals. An artist will then work with your digital image, blending it into the canvas in a lifelike way and producing a custom pet portrait that’s completely unique.

Look at this custom pet portrait we did featuring our pug, Spartacus!

And if you love sending REAL Valentines, whether by mail or in person, Amazon has some fantastic vintage-inspired animal cards with clever little messages.

And if you still need name inspiration, I’m here to help! Check out my new naming service for 2023.

 

 

 

 

 

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Filed Under: Faith and Family, Names, Pets

The Cute Names That Children Choose for Their Pets

April 11, 2022 by Anne Marie 7 Comments

 

Joseph holding his favorite kitty, Pixie

When we first moved to Zephyr Hill Farm, ordering a small batch of baby chicks from the farm store was the first of our adventures. Every morning we would be treated to a cheery chorus of peeps and cheeps. Children love to hold the tiny birds and stroke their fuzzy tummies. Sometimes the surprised baby birds are even treated to a quick smooch on the beak!

The children had all those chicks named within 24 hours, and the names were so cute, I wanted to share this old memory with you since Easter’s just around the corner.

Joseph, at age nine, had super heroes on his mind. The names he picked:

  • Flash
  • Dart
  • Lightning

I like how they echo the speed and alertness of backyard chickens.

Catherine picked:

  • Eggert
  • HawkMan (who actually turned out to be Hawk Woman hahaha)

Isn’t Eggert so very distinguished?

Toddler Benjamin went with his heart and named his:

  • Fuzzy Wuzzy
  • Cheepy Weepy

Here are some other pet names we’ve used over the years, just to give you some inspiration:

  • Dante
  • Poseidon
  • Pearl
  • Cricket
  • Claude
  • Starbuck
  • Sabrina
  • Lafayette
  • Skippy
  • Contessa (Tess)
  • Bandit
  • Blackjack
  • Caspian
  • Solomon
  • Foxy
  • Corduroy
  • George

Need more pet name ideas? Check out these posts!

How to Choose a Great Pet Name
Holiday-Themed Pet Names
300+ Pet Names Based on Personality and Color

A fresh, bright-eyed baby chick is such a wonderful reminder of nature’s renewal each Spring, and of the glorious resurrection of Christ, who gives life eternal to all who receive Him. May you have a blessed Holy Week and a glorious Easter!

 

 

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